Get Your Motor Running

So your husband of thirty-five years points out a motorcycle and says "I want to get that"

Your husband of thirty-five years that's never ridden a motorcycle.

What were you thinking to say "You can't have that. We have to renovate the kitchen!" This is not what you say to a husband who has always put everyone else first, has an eight year old cell phone, a ten year old car, and the last kid is grown. Let him spend some money on himself for once.

But could you ask him nicely to not spend it on something that will get his butt killed?