Score one for the WIFE

Husband cheats on wife with a coworker. Wife calls her husband's employer, speaks to his supervisors, and threatens legal action unless they handle the situation to her liking (transfer the other woman).

She is amazed that he can't decide between her and the other woman and doesn't understand why he won't go into counseling with her.

For her it's all about power, control, punishment, and not being made a fool of. She has drug his career and their children into the middle of it and used them as weapons to punish her husband.

And she feels completely justified. Like she has accomplished something to be proud of. Of course she thinks it's a situation where you can keep score. As if there was actually going to be a winner.